I'm constantly being asked by dating clients what they should do and say on dates - especially first dates, and the answer is fairly easy to anticipate. It's simply to remember that whatever annoys you or puts you off about the people you date, is likely to put them off if you do the same things! Remember it's not a sell, and you don't have to get everything there is to know about you across on the first date. If you find yourself having to sell yourself and really work for

Tired of waiting for Mr Right to show up? Still waiting for your knight in shining armour to swoop in and “find you”? This is such a prevalent problem for women of all ages. I have clients well into their 50’s still waiting and hoping for the right guy to show up yet failing to take action. The flip-side of this issue – that women should be more proactive in seeking and chasing men – brings up one of two reactions: “What if he rejects me?” and “Is it OK to ask a guy out f